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Suicide means ending the life self. It is planning death for self. This is self death of life.

After suffering the death of a beloved by suicide, for the relations. It is common to feel guilt and to wonder if they might have done something to stop it. Other common reactions to grief are shock, denial, sadness, longing and regret these symptoms of grief; therefore the process of getting back to daily routine may take longer time with suicide bereavement.

Individuals left behind by the suicide of a beloved tend to experience complicated grief in reaction to loss. The symptoms of grief experienced by suicide survivors where include intense emotion and longings for the deceased; severely intrusive thoughts about the lost beloved; extreme feelings of isolation and emptiness, avoiding doing things that bring back memories of the departed; new or worsened sleeping problems; and having no interest in activities that the sufferer wont to enjoy.

Issues of suicide

a). Emotions toward the Deceased

Further, the family may desire their beloved acted selfishly in choosing death. Although the family should love and mourn the suicide victim. They may, at an equivalent time, feel frustrated, disappointed or mad at the loved one’s choice of suicide.

b). Self-Blame

Although only the late loved one is liable for his/her option to end his life. The sense is that they might have prevented the suicide; may cause the family to question their own abilities as caregivers and cause excessive guilt.

c). Grieving

Further, like other deaths; the family will likely want to share positive memories about the beloved. Given the stigma surrounding suicide. However, families can also feel ashamed and need to cover that their loved one’s death was a suicide.

Similarly, the family may feel ashamed to speak about things with outsiders or host memorials; that might draw attention to their late loved one’s option to end his life.

d). Grieving After Suicide is especially Difficult

If one experience suicidal ideation; intense longing or feelings that life is meaningless; one could also be affected by complicated grief. It’s acknowledged that this is often more common in suicide survivors than those that suffered the death of a beloved from other circumstances; which this complicated grief can interfere with ones normal ability to function. Losing a beloved to suicide may result in post traumatic stress disorder, depression, anxiety or other trauma symptoms.

e). Health Implications

f). The Stigma of Suicide

This will cause rifts within the family and feelings of being rejected by friends; and therefore the community. It is important to recollect that a number of the friends or social connections may avoid him/her because they do not know what to mention or the way to help things instead of because they’re rejecting him/her.

When an individual dies, societally, others generally offer empathy and compassion. But when an individual dies by suicide; there is stigma around that death and other people often treat the loved ones of the one that committed suicide differently. Loved ones are often very afraid to speak about the suicide for fear of judgement and condemnation — being blamed for the suicide of their loved one or friend. due to this, one effect of suicide on family and friends are often extreme isolation.

g). Suicide Effects on the psychological state of Family and Friends

Another study showed that children of oldsters who committed suicide are at a significantly increased risk for committing desth themselves. The younger the kid at the time of the parent’s suicide, the greater the danger of his or her own suicide.

Suicide affects different people of the family differently

a). Partners:

Spouse likely to possess had one among the closest relationships with the deceased — physically and emotionally. If there have been no indications of their intentions; one may question self about how he/she couldn’t have noticed or feel that they deceived their partner by hiding it. Or if there have been indications; one may feel guilty that he/she did not do enough.

One may find self questioning other aspects of his/her relationship and worrying about how others perceive him/her as a partner or spouse. it’s likely that one are going to be grieving alongside partner’s family and it’s going to be that their reactions leave one feeling blamed partially or whole for the suicide. This might be unintentional, If one have children; he/she may find that he/she has got to manage her experience of grief as a spouse; alongside supporting children through the loss of their parent.

Additionally to the emotional impact of bereavement; one may have practical concerns as a results of now having to deal with finances, home and family single handedly. There may have to be major changes in life — changing or abandoning job; moving to a cheaper house or becoming one parent. One can also find that social life is impacted too — the pertner may suddenly feel as if it’s made for couples. One may find that it’s difficult to contemplate developing new relationships within the future.

b). Siblings

Siblings may find that they become isolated within the family.Twins may feel a good more extreme sense of loss emotional and physical; and should feel further isolated as so few will have a shared understanding of their experience.

c). Sons and Daughters

The loss of a parent can have a very damaging effect on self-worth. Additionally to handling own grief and confusion, one can also find self, handling a remaining parent who is grieving for his/her partner. This may be the first time that one have seen them emotionally vulnerable and it can be very distressing.

If one loses his/her parent as a child one may find that people around him/her try to protect him/her and exclude him/her from details about the death.

d). Grandparents

e). Extended Family

Conclusion

Suicide doesn’t solve the matter instead it generates numerous harmful effects within the family. People shouldn’t kill for others sake who really look after them.

https://mahasoe.com/2020/10/01/what-is-suicide/

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